Sometimes #momlife can really test your strength and grit.
And it can also GIVE you opportunities to reflect and adjust how you want to create your reality. Let me explain!
This was us last night waiting for our ride. Both of us obviously tired AF
Some people will complain, heck, I used to complain ALL the time that I never have enough sleep. Or that I’m tired all the time.
But really, my mindset changed the moment I realized that I was responsible for that by saying the actual words “I’m tired I’m tired I’m tired” to everyone that asked me how I am. AND for not making the time FOR ME to rest and recover no matter what circumstance.
Then when I looked deeper, i realized that I blamed most of it on Sophia. And MAN…. that’s not fair AT ALL! but the moment I saw that I was doing that, I gave it up immediately and made a new promise to myself to stand in, well honestly after the rush of guilt and forgiveness and balling my eyes out bc don’t forget I am human after all. Anyway I’m so down to be superhuman and create a dope ass life for me and Sophia that I’m WILLING to do whatever it takes to make a change, no matter how uncomfortable.
Anyway, point is, it requires brutal honesty and radical CONSISTENT ACTION to change your mental patterns.
Don’t get me wrong, I am still very much tired sometimes. AND I know NOW that I don’t have to blame anyone and that I have full control over it.
Big part of this realization, is that I get to witness the beauty of Sophia’s existence on a deeper level. I get to love her even more, I could actually hear what she needs from me instead of being in my head trying to keep this “I’m tired” story going on and plus I get to love y’all more and be more real with you guys because I’m OWNing all my mental patterns and my actions all of it good and bad! .
I’m not perfect but I’m totally down for #growth
Alright that’s good for right now. Lolol .
If you’ve read this far thank you I love you. .
If this at all resonated with you at all leave me a comment or an email for those shy ones, I want to spark up a conversation!!
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